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These people are crazy. It’s not even about perfect lol.. I’m not even the type to compare my relationship to anyone else’s idea of what a relationship should be. Healthy is healthy. The standard for healthy can’t be changed just because you don’t agree with someone else life style choices. And I say fuck love, because everyone seem to think I care what they think I need. You can’t just decide for another person. Good communication doesn’t work like that.
Ok….
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Thank you for sharing authentic relationship advice and showing us what a good relationship is like. I’m so tired of those perfect relationships on Instagram 🤢
Perfect relationships just don’t exist!
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Hi e. Me and my bf have been in an ldr for a few years. We see each other a decent amount and I love him to death, he’s also the best friend I’ve ever had. I’m relatively young (21) and the relationship started in my teens but now that we’re more serious and trying to come up w a future for ourselves I’ve had people in my family tell me that we’re too different and life for us will be hard. Things like he doesn’t match my drive or isn’t as goal oriented as me/going no where. (1)
Your friends and family will always have an opinion and some of it may be warranted but what it comes down to is that you know your relationship with this person the best and unless there is a black and white scenario (rare) that gives reason to break up, it’s really your call about what you want to do with your relationship. If you still love your boyfriend and you feel like a future is possible with him or you would like to see if that future could be possible, then you need to let go of what your friends and family think. If your boyfriend treats you well and you feel respected and that the efforts are reciprocated and balanced, you need to listen to your gut. I know it’s hard when the people we love have really strong opinions about our significant others but you have to learn to to be able to listen to what applies.
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Fuck love
Sorry you feel that way right now.
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(Source: taurusdreamgirl)
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do you and your boyfriend ever get into shit times lol
Of course. Last month was brutal. Like, really hard.
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If my future s/o doesn’t stare at me like I’m their whole world while I stand like a crackhead in the candle section of target smelling every single candle before buying one then whats the point
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Had my monthly performance review with my boss where she normally has some sort of negative feedback to give even if I am doing well but this was the first time she just let me marinate in how well I am doing at work. It was so nice. But what was nicer is that the meeting lasted only 30 minutes.